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How to throw the ultimate Tailgate!

September 5, 2019

How to throw the ultimate Tailgate!

September 5, 2019

If you’ve followed me for any amount of time, you know I’m a MASSIVE sports fan, of ANY kind! And when it comes to picking a favorite, football has to be up there! I love the competition, the amazing plays, the camaraderie, the teams’ legacies, the cheering and even the jeering, and a million other things! But I also love the social aspect of it, and tailgating is a part of that for me!

I grew up in Charlotte, and we didn’t have a pro football team for the first third of my life, so we were insanely excited when we got the Carolina Panthers and had our first game in ’95! My parents used to throw the best tailgates for every home game, as the rooftop to my dad’s work building, overlooked the stadium! They’d set up tables full of food, have TVs broadcasting the other games, and coolers full of drinks! Their rule, as always, “if you leave hungry or thirsty, it’s your own damn fault.” πŸ˜‰

Joshua and I even had our rehearsal dinner on that rooftop because of the awesome memories made, many of them related to those tailgates! In later years, they’d bring their RV to the parking lot, and we’d have huge tailgates on the streets. I’m not saying I’m a tailgating pro, but I’ve seen the best hosts IMHO, and I’m here to share some of the tips I’ve witnessed along the way, AND give yall some of my own ideas!

    I follow the 4 hour rule…get to the tailgate 4 hours before the game starts, eat two hours before it starts, and walk to the stadium 30-45 minutes before it starts, based on the length of the walk.
    I am a fan of basing the menu on what time we’re tailgating…brunch for a 1pm game, lunch for a 4pm game, dinner for a prime time game, and asking people to potluck within the brunch/lunch/dinner theme. Tell your attendees “no real serving dishes” because they won’t be going back to their cars and you don’t want to have to return dishes afterwards!
    I don’t love the idea of waste, but when it comes to tailgating, it’s similar to when we camp. Doing dishes is hard, so I try to use paper products/platters that I can recycle/burn. Use pop-up laundry hampers (that fold flat) with trash bags in them for waste and recycling!
    Since we’re typically eating on our laps, or eating while standing when we tailgate, this is the time for finger foods…or better yet, a meal inside of a bag! A walking taco is perfect for the occasion because everything is inside of the bag of chips already!
    Cooler space is of a premium, so avoid using it for condiments; this is the time to use all of those ketchup, mustard, hot sauce, etc. packets!
    Listen, I love deviled eggs as much as the next person, but I generally try to avoid anything that needs to be chilled before eating. Plus, if it’s in the direct sunlight, it spoils quicker than expected. Think chips and salsa (recipe HERE), instead of chips and queso!
    Cornhole can be a PITA to bring places (or we don’t have room for it), so we tend to bring our washers game instead! We typically have a football or two to throw around, bubbles for kids, and whatever else we can find!
    Not only is glass heavier to carry (or roll), but it inevitably, someone will stick his tongue in your ear, and you’ll turn your head so fast, you’ll break your front tooth on the top of the beer bottle. Wait, that was college, but STILL AT A TAILGATE, and I’m STILL mad about it. Only exception here is a mason jar full of sangria (recipe HERE) because those things don’t leak!
    It goes without saying to wear your team’s colors, jerseys, cat ears, etc. to the tailgate, but don’t forget to layer! Often times, the temperature between when tailgate starts, and you’re sitting inside of the stadium, can vary by 20 degrees or more! I’m a fan of a long sleeve shirt, under the jersey, that I can take off and tie around my waist. And full length leggings (faves are HERE) can be rolled to be capris if it gets too hot! And always wear comfortable shoes…no one is expecting a fashion show at an NFL game! Check out Girl Tribe’s game day collection try-on HERE (use MIRANDA10 for 10% off), and cute panther earrings from Clay by Mila Faye HERE (use MIRANDACLT for 15% off)!
    I’m a sucker for a decorated, and well set up food table. But I’m all about working smarter, not harder. Traditional table cloths blow easily, and even if they have clips or elastic, they’re a pain to clean. Enter the twin-sized FITTED SHEET! It stays on the table, you can find it one of your team’s colors, and just throw it in the washer when you get home to clean it! I bought a plain black one (doesn’t show stains), and then used a Panther’s towel to decorate it (again, throw it in the washer).
    I always bring sunscreen AND bug spray, because you never know what the elements will give you that day! And if you don’t know the exact location of your seats in the stadium, you may just be sitting in the direct sun the whole time! And a first-aid kit isn’t a bad idea either…has headache medicine, bandaids, burn relief, and other basics!
    You’ll want to have some music and/or listen to the pregame show on the radio! Don’t run your battery in the car dead, and instead get a great portable bluetooth speaker ($5 off coupon right now) and play it from your phone. Also, you’ll want a fully-charged phone to head into the stadium with, so don’t forget this charger, as it will charge an iphone up to five times without being plugged in!
    I know, I know. But yall, four hours + drinking beverages + being outside = pee emergency! Now, if you’re smart, you’ll pick a tailgating spot that has a porta potty/bathroom close by, but what if it doesn’t?! Bring a roll of TP just in case, some hand sanitizer, and baby wipes. Don’t ask questions…just trust me. LOL.
    I know pop up canopies aren’t the easiest things to fit in a car, but make room. If it starts to rain, you’ll want the food (and your body) under it. If it’s brutally hot, you’ll want the shade. And you can hang stuff from it, like a paper towel roll, with a bungee cord through it. And of course, a huge Panther’s flag, showing your team pride!
    I found this utterly ridiculous, yet awesome, inflatable football field buffet cooler on Amazon! Fill it with some bags of ice, and put all of the drinks in it, freeing up space in your cooler for food that needs to be cooked! The best part is that when not in use, it deflates and folds up very small, not taking up much space at all!
    I love the taste of a burger cooked over charcoal as much as the next girl, but waiting for coals to cool down, and the disposing of them after they are, is not my idea of fun. So this is when I’d suggest propane and a camping stove if you must cook something!
    The last thing you’ll need to do at the tailgate is gather what you’re taking into the game. Here are the rules….you CANNOT take a bag in unless it’s clear (or extremely small…smaller than your hand). This is where Policy bags come in handy, and are still fashionable AF! Check them out HERE, and make sure you get in the bag line at the stadium because they’ll still need to search them! You can also bring two bottles of water, but the seal cannot be broken…they know the vodka trick, yall. πŸ˜‰ Oh, and you can bring a blanket with you, so if it’s chilly, you’re good to go!

Those are my top 17 tips to throwing the ultimate tailgate! What did I miss?! Tell me in the comments, and as always


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  • Brooke Credeur September 5, 2019 at 8:37 pm

    Thank you for all of the great content! I can’t wait to use some of your ideas!

  • Jennifer September 5, 2019 at 9:28 pm

    Love all these great tips! Thanks Miranda!!

  • Cortney Lancaster September 5, 2019 at 9:41 pm

    The black bean and corn salsa is to die for!! I made it for a cook out this summer and totally forgot to take pics for you πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ You are awesome! Keep up the wonderful stories and blogging πŸ’œ

  • Candice September 5, 2019 at 9:46 pm

    These are great ideas and I love that they are easy to implement!!!

  • Robin September 6, 2019 at 1:17 am

    Great job sister! Even those the Cowboys are way better I can still use your tips. Oh and Btw the salsa is amaZeballs!!!

  • Mrs Wiedner September 6, 2019 at 1:29 am

    Great post! These are super tips. Love the trash bag idea with the hamper.

  • Kayla September 6, 2019 at 4:14 am

    I have actually never been to a tailgate party before. But I love the clear bag you shared, and these tips are great! Thanks so much!

  • Kirby September 6, 2019 at 12:26 pm

    XOXO and Go Panthers!

  • Penelope Smith March 11, 2020 at 4:52 am

    My little cousin is the kicker for his high school football team. His parents want to do a big fun tailgating party for his playoff game this year. It is nice to know that they will want to get a canopy to help keep people cool. I wonder if they can get a trailer that people can chill in during the tailgating party.

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    I'm Miranda, and I'm formerly lots of things (I sold dumpsters, fro-yo, and car parts to name a few), but most recently I was a cakery owner of Got What It Cakes. I'm a mom of two daughters whom I call my "minis,” and the wife to Joshua, whom I call "Stud" (yes, he's even in my phone under that name). Most days you can find me oversharing about my insane life on my InstaStories, in a segment I call "carpool confessions." Follow along as I decide what to be when I grow up, while I navigate my other love, the queen city of Charlotte! I also tend to go by "Mayor Miranda," and am awaiting my key to the city ;) Read More

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